How do i stop being jealouse...or do i have every right??
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So my boyfriend and I have been a relationship for 6 months now. However, we have now and had kinda been together for a year. Anyway he is older than me in his late 20s. A big issue I have is him talking to girls on myspace. I know its just myspace but its getting out of control. Its not just talking to them on myspace anymore. Its getting each others cell numbers and then texting back and forth. Which he feels that there is nothing wrong with it. You would think by the time a man is in their late 20s, early 30s would just delete the myspace. Then I dont have to worry about him texting girls because without myspace he wouldn't have any girls numbers. It makes me feel like he rather break up with me and fight all the time because myspace is a better girlfriend to him. Do things like this happen to others???? WHY ME??? Some help please!!!
You have every right to not be cool with this situation. It is NOT appropriate for a man in a relationship with you to text other girls all day long, especially ones he met on MySpace. It sounds like he is not ready to be in a real mature relationship with you.
You are not alone in this kind of thing, so don't worry that there is something wrong with you. There isn't.
I do think you are going to have to be strong here and move on from this person. Enlist the moral support of your friends or family, take a deep breath, and tell him that this isn't fair to you, and that you deserve better. It's possible he will promise to stop texting all these girls, but not probable. At his age, he should be more mature. It sounds like he needs to be alone to figure out his issues, and you are a smart girl for realizing that you don't need to be around for that.
-- from Jill
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