she knows I like her - what do i do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok, so this one girl is in my school. She is like all typical Asian girls. She isn't in any of my classes and i know her from my friend. So i don't know who told her, but i think someone told her that i like her. She used to talk to me and poke me, but now she doesn't say "hi" and acts as if i am not there. But the funny thing is that she is always poking me on Facebook. So i've decided to catch her after school to ask her what is going on.
is there anything else i should do?
It seems that this girl likes you - or why would she poke you on Facebook? - but doesn't really know how to handle knowing you like her. I would definitely catch up with her and ask her what is going on. Just say, right out, "I like you. Do you like me?"
This way, there is no blame, and no game playing on your part. She will either own up one way or the other, or act coy. I would hope she is mature enough to be direct back with you, but that part is not in your control. At the least, you will have shown your courage and set the path for honesty. I hope she is up to letting you know how she feels, instead of brushing you aside or acting confused. If she isn't honest back, you can take a deep breath and move on to someone else!
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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