can't I move on or is it just a weird delirium?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok, this is weird...

Well, years before I already have asked for advice here... and it's still the same guy I've been talking about... now we're both going on our separate ways... we were no longer besties nor do we have feelings for each other... it was easy to forget him....

since we're both studying in different colleges now... but...

it was definitely a small strange world.... on my first sem we never really talked ever since summer vacation then suddenly after a few weeks... he texted me... and even called me... not only that his mother called me (his mother called on her own it but the reason is him why he called) saying he was down... but I'll not elaborate on that one then for the first 3 months (i think?) I honestly have forgotten him.... never ever did he crossed my mind once... then suddenly he texted... asking me to watch his play... and I did which totally disgusted me since it was so gay...

then later up until now... we never communicated but say hi to each other though (only him :p) whenever we cross paths and that's it... and I think he finally has his first gf :))

then I suddenly realized that his best friend which is a girl... happens to be my coursemate who's all this time just with me in my college >.<... who's just in the other room... in the other section!!! which reminded me of him yet again... :)) and I though I was away from his world :))
but... like I care... what I care about is me...

after all that...

he starts reappearing in my dreams which is weird... I don't even think about him anymore within the day... except some days when I reminisce but I have long forgotten about him...(supposed to be ) so... I wonder... haven't I moved on or is it just a weird delirium? it's weird how he ends up suddenly even though I think he's insignificant... Advice
From what you say, you have moved on in daily life but there are reminders of him.

My advice is to ignore the dreams. We never know what they mean and there is no use trying to figure them out.

Good luck! George

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