Can't get over him ),:Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Well there was this guy in my class and he was dating another girl. One night, about 2 or 3 days after I had started texting/messaging him, he told me he liked me and I told him that I liked him back. Then the next day he told his girlfriend that I liked him, but not that he liked me but she found out that part later and she broke up with him after a 5 month relationship. Then like an hour after their breakup, he asked me out and of course I said yes. Then he asked me to our schools winter formal which was 4 days later. We were doing fine and two days later I kissed him, my first kiss ever. He was my first real boyfriend ever and I was about his 10th. So we did fine and went to the dance and he kept saying how much he loved me and how amazing I was. We never sopped texting the whole time we were dating. Then the night after the dance, he txted me and asked if we could just be friends for like 3 days cause he was super busy and didn't know if he'd have time to hang out and be a good boyfriend. I said yes then the next day we were at school and I saw him walking with some other girl and my friend said that he'd said that we had broken up. And he had been dating the other girl since 4 days before, 2 nights after we started dating. I didn't get mad thoughh, I got sad and after I texted him for a while we talked a while and I (stupidly) forgave him. But he thought I was fine but I've cried every day since and, akthough our relationship only lasted 5 days, I loved him and now we're friends but I miss him so much and I still love him. I just wish I knew why he broke up with me and I wanna stop crying. I loved him so much though. Help please.. D:
Sorry you are feeling so sad during the holidays.
But be of good cheer because you will soon get over this boy and find someone new. He was your first boyfriend and first kiss so it won't be easy to forget him but you will.
This is what romance is about... the incredibly good feelings and then the bad feelings. Everyone goes through this cycle before they finally find someone to settle down with.
Now is the time to hang out with friends and family who you love and they also love you. Being with them will give you good feelings that help reduce the bad feelings.
Share your feelings with them. That will help get the feelings out of your system. Ask your Mom for a hug and ask your friends too. Hugging will help.
If you have a pet, play with it and your spirits will rise.
Hope you can find a way to stop crying soon. Like for all hurts, time will heal the pain.
Good luck and Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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