But she has a boyfriend...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I happen to have a huge crush on my bestfriend. She has also told me she likes me too and many of my other friends say that we look like a couple when we're together. But she has a boyfriend and she doesn't plan on breaking up with him anytime soon. She often kisses me on the cheek or forehead when we're together, something I know she only does with me, but the one time I tried to kiss her on the lips she told me to stop. I'm ok with just being her friend (though I'd obviously prefer more) but she doesn't seem to want to commit one way or the other even though we've talked about this and I've tried not to pressure her either way. Basically my question is, should I keep holding out for more or should I just do my best to get over her and move on?
It's the holiday season so she is not going to break up with her boyfriend now.
Keep on doing what you have been and given more time and the passing of the holidays she may start to think more strongly about you.
If things haven't changed in a month then leave her behind.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com