Why she says we will be but wont take action

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I dated the love of my life for two year, then one day she texts me and says its over. So next day we go out to eat to discuss why it ended. She says because we fought to much and she wants other things at the moment. Anyways, fast forward 3 months and she say she thinks we'll get back together, just not right now? Im still not over her and I dont think she is either. She tells me that she misses me, but cant see me. Im so confused because she says these things, yet tries and dates other people. I feel as if she still cares, but for some reason wont try to get back together. Why does she say these things????

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She is obviously confused about her feelings.

Here is a suggestion. Tell her it is clear that your relationship is unknown right now but that maybe if you tried getting back together for a test period you two could figure it out.

Ask her if she would be willing to take advantage of the Holiday season to spend time together like the old days. That way you could have a wonderful Holiday and maybe find out where you stand.

Good luck! George

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