How do I get him back and say sorry so he'll understand?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex bf lives in NY, I live in SC. We were together for the whole summer but he went to NY to 'visit' and hasn't come back. I have been feeling really lonely lately and never would ever have thought I would ever cheat. Him and I were together for a year. I always found this guy attractive then I gave him my number on Thanksgiving when I saw him, almost a week later he called and I went to his house to hang out, only to watch movies. He kissed me so I kissed him back, btw he was not a good kisser at all and my ex is the most amazing kisser in this entire world. I felt so guilty I told him the next morning. He was at first going to let us work things out but then backed down. But we still have been talking every day, he throws it in my face, I don't blame him I know what I did was disgusting and I feel horrible. I love him more than anything in this entire world and I know we are meant to be together. He's the most amazing thing that ever happened to me. I can't let him go but I never know the right thing to say? What can I say to get him back in my arms forever? I will NEVER make this mistake ever again. I don't know what to do.. He's 22 I'm 19.
Sorry this happened to you. Since you know you are meant to be, keep apologizing and explaining just like you did here. As close as you are, he should allow you one mistake. If you were together it would be cleared up a lot more quickly.
Keep telling him you love him and that you made a mistake. If his love is strong enough he will forgive you. Tell him you want to come up and visit him and make things right again. The Holiday season would be a perfect time. Or, if you can't go there, maybe he could visit you.
Love will find a way!!
Best wishes, George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com