strange dilemma

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Strangely, I have met a girl that has everything a guy could ask for. She's in great shape, athletic, and I can recognize that she's beautiful. Furthermore, she's got a great personality. The only downside being that she does have a slightly big nose and she comes off a little as a ditz if you don't get to know her. Even though I know that she is virtually everything that I recognize as attractive I am not attracted to her. It isn't uncommon for me to be incredibly attracted to women with a lot less going for them. Unfortunately I'm always a little down on my luck with women and she is clearly interested in me. Needless to say, I'm tempted to ask her out but refuse to do so out of fear that it could be bad for both of us. Should I reconsider this or stay my course? Advice
You may be pleasantly surprised if you ask her out and you click after all.

The odds of this happening are not that great since you aren't attracted to her but you are not risking very much by going out on a date or two.

I'd say give it a try.

Good luck! George

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