What Do I Do?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend, of 11 months, broke up around 2 weeks ago, because he didn't "love me anymore" over the past 2 weeks, i've told him i loved him, and i missed him, i'm struggling really badly, and i really need some good advice on how to get him back and make him want me again, i really can't bare being without him.
Thankyou for your time.
While it is a difficult thing to try to get an ex back again, you need to keep a positive, happy outlook if you are going to have success. Being sad or mopey will turn him off and prevent you from taking steps to solve the problem.
It will help if you start off by putting yourself in his shoes. Use what he said and your memory of your relationship to think of what might have gone wrong. If he was caring when he said goodbye that is a good sign. It is very important to try to stay friends with him while you try to get him back. Think of ways to stay in communication without pushing him away.
If you can, get him to give you more information about his feelings. He might not be willing or able to do that but you should try. Talk with his friends, your friends, and your mother to find out what advice they may have.
Think of interesting things you might do together as friends. It hasn't been too long since you broke up so maybe you could get rebuild your relationship with time.
Make him some cookies as a present... boys are always hungry.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com