How to make the love of my life feel the same way as i do towards him?and does he love me too??
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi there...i'm really in love with a guy who used 2 be really close to me untill lately,for no reason,he started ignoring me...i never told him i love him or even tht i like him but he never told me either...he used 2 help me out with studies,bunking,funds,whtevr i ask him! but nowdays he's been ignoring me a loottt....he doesn't evn reply 2 my texts anymore....i tried asking him wht the matter was but he still didn't reply i asked his sister wht the matter was n she asked me to take it lightly.it drives me INSANE tht he ignores me so i started ignoring him too(only in front of him) this was sort of working out i guess coz he tried talking to me jus casually but i ignored him again n he got curious and whn i'm talking to any of my guy friends he tries to listen to my talks...does this mean he likes me??
we even used to flirt with each other before he started ignoring...our choices are totally same n tht's one thing tht got me closer to him,we alwayz used 2 end up wearing the same colour on any special occasions...i tried convincing myself it's just a crush but he just can't get out of my head whtevr i do i think of him in every possible way lmao whenever i think of my future it's never without him be it my husband or the father of my children...does this really mean i truly love him???i cant think of anything else!
we still meet almost every week but it's been months we've actually talked 2 each other unlike before whn we used to chat EVERY night which involved flirting too!
I wanna know wayz to get really close to him and make him feel the same feelings towards me too without me being the first one proposing...and btw he is very reserved and quiet shy too but opens up in front of only certain people,which involved me too..PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
What you are asking for is a love potion to make him fall in love with you but, of course, there is no such thing.
My guess is that he started ignoring you because you started, without realizing it, to come on too strong to him. This is because you developed a strong crush on him and he sensed it. It is not true love because you don't know him well enough to be thinking of marriage and children. His sister probably knows him well enough and that's why she said to for you to take it lightly.
Try starting over and make friends gently. Try to control your feelings so he won't be scared. You did a good thing by ignoring him for a while because it took the pressure off of him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com