i'm in love but the guy wouldnt show any reaction!!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey every1...i'm really in love with this guy who happens 2 be my cousin...we're almost the same age n so v were really close...we used 2 chat,txt each other,tease each other n stuff...lately he started ignoring me for no reason he wouldn't talk,wouldn't reply 2 my txts,wouldn't thank 4 wishing on his birthday or wouldn't wish me on my BIRTHDAY!i at first got pissed n started ignoring him too but thn i realised i really am in love with him,i miss him terribly,think up some connection 2 him in every topic going on around,tried calling,txting jus everything but there's no answer....recently he forgot his cell at home,i waz jus searching for a number which i didn't find,but i also didn't find my own no. in it thn i started going thru the whole contact list n found my no. with some other name,my name joined 2gthr with his! what would i understand?i started observing him more n think he'z hiding his feelings for me...both of us are really shy n i couldnt be the first b'coz im still not sure whether he jus likes me or does he love me back or neither!But i truly truly love him n donno wht 2 do now i miss him he still doesn't txt or reply back...please help!thanx

RomanceClass.com Advice
Unless you can find a relative or friend to act as a go-between, you will have to discuss this with him personally. Do this face-to-face or by talking on the phone.

Is there a taboo about cousin dating where you live? You didn't say so and so it is probably ok for cousins to date and perhaps marry.

It is not a good sign that he refuses to answer your texts. If he actually loves you, why wouldn't he reply?

Good luck! George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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