Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
3 guys on work placement asked me out. I liked 2 of them, but couldn't push the boundaries while a student still. I finish in 1 month's time. I met Guy 2 before starting placement, at a training session and he ended up employed at the same place. He has been courting me on and off, insisting on sharing his food with me, really nice food. I have sensed him suddenly beginning to switch off this week and thought I saw him driving another woman home.
I am wondering if I should speak to him or just leave it?
Don't worry about boundaries. This just seems an excuse to avoid socializing. But, if you think the boundaries are firm then let them know your reasons and wait a month. As far as the guy who has been sharing his lunch, perhaps you haven't made it clear that you like him and he is losing interest. Make sure he knows you like him and that you will be free in a month.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com