What do I do in this situation??
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I met this girl in seventh grade. We became friends and kept up communication all through high school. I've taken her to multiple homecomings and proms. She is a girl in which I have the best inspiring conversations and in which I learn the most about myself. She loves the same things I do. She and I love to dance together and always have a great time.
The problem is, I can't get her out of my mind. There is no other girl who compares to her no matter how hard I try to find one. She can't seriously date until college and I don't want to lose her. Am I just crazy or is this normal?
Dan the Man
You are crazy... it seems you are crazy in love.
However, you did not mention that you love her. Talk this over with her and find out how each of you feel about love. Maybe I'm wrong and you are just really good friends. You didn't mention any physical romantic activity so that is a mystery too.
This is very important... it is dangerous to wait until college before finding out if you both love each other. It is dangerous because you will not have experience being with other girls and knowing how to interact.
Make this a high priority. Are you two in love or not?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com