dealing with my ex
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello and thanks for having the time to read my email:
well this is the situation: my ex and i have been separated for 3 years now, she dumped me for another guy but even then she was cheating on her man with me. she got pregnant and made her bf believe it was his........well we did a DNA test and proved that it was mine (I am being responsible for the baby ). so even though she cheated on her bf with me and lied to him abut the baby (which of course we later found out it was mine) the guy forgave her and they still together!! well after that we stayed mad at each other for a almost a year until last sunday when she told me to go to her house and we ended up having sex but right after we made a deal to never talk about it again and we went back to fighting again......why is it that even though she has a man she still willing and cheated on her bf with me? how can i stop that?? i know this is going nowhere n i really want to stop it but i just dont know how.....she's been cheating on her man with me ever since they started dating, which makes me wonder why did she dumped me for him if she's cheating on her man?
Only your ex knows why she is cheating. My advice is to stop wondering and put your efforts into being the best father you can be. Your daughter deserves that and you don't want her to turn out like her mother. The way to do that is to be with your daughter whenever you can and raise her to be trustworthy.
Be strong with your ex and don't cheat with her again. You and she are both cheaters and that's not good for your daughter.
Work on this and you will be happy you did.
Good luck to you and your daughter! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com