Together, Break-up, Smoking, What?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My Ex and I have been on and off again for about nine months. note: i love him to death and he wants to marry me. we got back together then a few weeks later he broke up with me...Again. Since then we have been friends and hanging out and acting like a couple but not "offical". Recently he had asked me what i thought if he started to smoke and i told him no. He replied back with "your not my gf dont tell me what to do". The past couple nightts i've had many people calling me telling me they just seen him and he looks a mess. i asked if this was true and he lied to me about it. i want him back but i also want him to stop smoking and be back to his regular self. But i dont know what to do. Should i leave him to mess up his life and do whatever? or should i keep trying to be with him and hope he stops smoking.
You seem close enough together that I think you should try to be with him and help him stop smoking. He doesn't seem to be happy without you.
If things don't work out you have lost nothing.
Give it a try. Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com