what shd i do. i'm confuse.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend and I known each other barely a month before starting our relationship.The moment i saw her,i know that she's the one for me. Recently,we had a big argument.For not picking up her call cause i was busy with work.She tolf me that her ex boyfriend did this before and eventually she found out that he was cheating on her.She said that she's afraid that I might also be cheating on her.But the truth is that i'm not.Being egoistic,I used harsh words on her which made her hate me more.FYI,she broke up with her ex boyfriend 2 months before meeting me and told me that she's over him.i'm in relationship with her for about 2 months.I love her so much that I decided to propose to her end of the year.Recently,a friend of mine called her and asked her what went wrong on my behalf.She confess that she no longer have feeling for me and do not know if she will accept me back one day.I had a bad past relationship before which make me regret to be in love. All this change when I met her and fall hard for her. I just want her back in my life,be with her for the rest of my life,make her happy,be there for her.But i don't know shd i move on or wait for her.And also at the same time,i'm afraid that if i stay on,she might move on and find someone better cause currently Im giving her space cause that is what she want.
It is good that you are giving her space. But, remember that she told your friend that she no longer has feelings for you.
What you should work on in the meanwhile is your problem with using harsh words. Nobody likes to be on the receiving end of harsh words. You learned to behave this way from someone in your life. It is up to you to unlearn it. It could haunt you the rest of your life. A first step is to apologize as soon as you realize that you used harsh words. At least the person will know that you recognize that you have a problem.
Good luck with this! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com