Intimacy as a basis of a very wrong relationship
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My teacher (not from school)started to make open sexual moves towards me,and, even after sleeping with me, he continues doing so. This is my first relationship with a man - much older than me, btw - and although he shows off some affection, I presume this might be only based on sexual attraction.I feel I somehow can't stop this "relationship", which is quite bizarre and, of course, involves a lot of secrecy, etc. What should I do?
Dump the guy. You won't be happy in the long run with him.
He should be ashamed of himself for hitting on a woman as young as you... as you said, it is probably only based on sexual attraction.
You are probably excited by the adventure and secrecy. Most of us would be. But you have to think it over and make the right choice. Let him go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com