Was it wrong?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I know that cheating is wrong and I never entended to cheat on my boyfriend but I did. We've been dating for almost a year and though I love him very much, I was unsure of my feelings for my ex. My ex boyfrind was my 1st everything and I needed to know if I was all the way over him or just in denial so I went to go see him. We had sex but it didn't feel like it used to, there wasn't an emotional connection like how I felt with my current boyfriend.
I now feel like I know for sure there is nothing between us and there is no "what if's." Now i'm happier and more secure in my relationship with my current boyfriend, but was it wrong? Should I have used the just look but don't touch rule even though I felt unsure?
It was wrong to cheat. What if everyone did what you did? It would be a pretty miserable world.
Put it behind you and don't do it again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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