he broke up with me, but now he seems unsure of himself?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
so, my ex broke up with me about two months ago. he was very confusing about the whole ordeal, giving me three reasons he broke up with me, none of which made much sense or really even connected with each other. that first month was real rough on me, but i just basically ignored him. then, i started to get better. i never thought of him. i went out with my friends and had fun. even started looking at other guys. well, he had said he wanted to stay friends. he eventually asked me to a party. well, i went and had a great time. then, afterward, i realized how much i really had missed him. well, a week later he asked me to hang out and was being romantic. kept pulling me over to his side and keeping his arm around me and hugging me and calling me baby and babe. and just this past weekend he once again asked me to a party with him. i don't know what he wants and i have no idea how to approach this topic with him or if i should just tell him to leave me alone.
Just ask him straight out what he is doing. You don't miss him that much do you. In other words, if he backed away would you be very upset?
If you would be upset, then let things ride the way they are and see what happens. He is obviously attracted to you... question is-- how much?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com