Cheater or just me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been dating this guy for over half a year and it seems that since summer started we're been to "close" to each other. he use to be a big flirt and loved to party, but he stopped almost completely for me. a month ago he met a girl @ the arcade and they've been getting really close. he tries to assure me that nothing is going on but he was over @ her house and was relectant to tell me. they went to a party together and he keeps mentionning her. they hang out a lot. she has a bf tho but she's had many. is it just me or should i be worried? we've talked about breaking up a few times now but cudn't go through with it. recently it seems like he's getting tired of me. i'm not the girl he thot he wold date and he said before we settle as a long term relationship he wants to date other girls.. ..
so he tells me he needs his space and time to himself,and im going away for over a week. wha? we've talked about breaking up a few times now but cudn't go through with it. recently it seems like he's getting tired of me. i'm not the girl he thot he wold date and he said before we marry he wants to date other girls.. it's hard to last "forever"...t should i do?
He wants his space and time so give it to him.
If this means you break up then so be it. You can't make something work if it isn't meant to be.
He wants to date other girls before being permanent with you, so let him do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
Visitor Submitted Responses
Our RomanceClass visitors have chimed in with thoughts on this question and answer. Click on a link below to read what their solutions are!
Both should Date