I want my ex back but he is still confused on what to do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I dated this guy for a year and a half and he was my first love and vice versa. I broke up with him becuase I knew school would come between us and since I was in college I wanted to experience new things, but found nothing. I even dated someone else and it made me realize I missed him and wanted him back. I started talking to him again and we still always say I love you to each other. But, before I came back I found out he has a girlfriend, who is terrible by the way. She has even tried cheating on him. My ex and I talked about getting back together he was just scared I would do the same thing to him again, and how he was happy with this new girl, but he can't get me out of his mind. I'm the same way. One night we got into a huge fight because the night before he told me he wanted me back and the night of the fight he told me he came over there just to see me. We fought because he said he wanted to try and see what happens with her, so I stopped talking to him for 3 weeks. I wrote him a letter explaining my feelings how I was going to let him move on and all of a sudden he wanted to hang out all the time, then he was back in my life and we just had sex last night. I have no idea what to do, I'm so confused. He isn't the type that uses girls so I know that's not what happened. Should I not talk to him until he ends it with her? Move on? Or still pursue him in a suttle way? Should I still talk to him regularly? The worst part is I know he is just as confused..
Tell him to make up his mind once and for all. You shouldn't have to be tortured while he waffles.
If he decides in her favor then move on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com