Confused on what to do about my ex-boyfriend and I breaking up
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex boyfriend John and I have been dating for about four years. Those four years have been the toughest times of my life, he was controling and never treated me very nice, but some how I always looked past all the bad in him and saw the good. I have recently found out that he cheated on me quite a few times in the four years that we were together. I don't understand why I love him so much still. Were basically stuck in the middle, we talk every day but he still is getting with lots of other girls and expecting me not to get with any boys? He says that he is a guy and it is okay for him to do that. He claims he still loves me and would want to get back together but now is not the time. (He lives in Maine for the summer) What should I do, if he is being a pig like this should I just move on? Or is four years a long time, and should I stick beside this guy? I cry almost every night thinking about him being with another girl... :(
Sorry you are in this situation.
You should dump this guy as fast as you can. You have suffered enough. His comments are ridiculous and you know it.
Explain how you feel and tell him he is history. Then find some other boy who will treat you right.
You don't want to spend the rest of your life being mistreated and miserable. Stand up for yourself now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com