Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
How or what am I suppose when for the past yr this girl who is 10yr oldr than me knows I love her and how I feel about her,I've been tryin to make her mine and when it seems things are going good she turns up meeting someone else and being with them,she tells me to move on and for us to be friends but she knows I can't be her friend and when I try 2 move on the thought of me being with another girl drives her mad..ovr the year I've known her she has been in 3 different relationships and through them all she has secretly seen me and we have been intmite wich makes my feelings deeper and as of now she is on the verge of breaking up with her bf but I find out there's other guys who just met her and want her to,I dnt thnk my heart can take another break or anymore pain and I dnt think I can bear the thought of her going with someone else and her not notice me or all the things I've done for her or her kids...what should I do or how should I take things
Sorry you are in this situation!
She seems to be playing you for a fool (I'm sorry to say.) The only time she seems to care for you is when you take up with another woman.
My advice is to find a nice woman and stick with her. You will have someone you love and someone who loves you. And, this girl you are talking about will just have to disappear. That might not be your first choice of decisions, but I bet that you will be happier in the long run.
Remember, you only have one life and you should live it in happiness.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com