I have betrayed my love and i don't know how to fix things.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been smoking behind my partners back and we have discussed that i would tell him when i had one. but i got too scared to tell him and i have recently told him that i have BEEN SMOKING and i have lied to his face. He is so angry and i feel like i'm loosing him. he tells me that he still cares and wants me to put the effort in. like be thoughtful and show him i care. but i already thought i do those things. could you please help he leaves for another country in a week. i need advice so i can fix things with him before he leaves. i really love him, i started to think i was falling out of love or getting bored but this fight has showed me how much i really care. Could you please help me with things to do that are thoughtful. and he also doesn't want me to spend money so i don't know what else to do. PLEASE HELP I AM DESPERATE.
Go to: https://www.nicotine-anonymous.org/standard_search.php
and find a nicotine-anonymous group near you. They will help you with your problem and your boyfriend will appreciate your effort.
Also, as a going away present make him his favorite meal, with lit candles, nice music, and whatever else you know he likes.
Promise he you won't lie anymore and keep to it. If you fail, tell him--at least he will know you are honest and that counts for a lot.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com