Why he doesn't call me back?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I like this guy whom i see in college so asked for help to get his number,( he is the one who actually approached me first asked my name etc and would always look at me and smile whenever he sees me but i think he feared asking for my phone number in case i say no) he told me give me yours and we will keep in touch. He rang me the same day and was just talking and then told me you have my number now you can also call me. I reminded him of the help ( just didnt want it to look obvious i just wanted his phone number). I waited about 9 days got courage and called him. I think he didnt expect it and at first i had to lead the conversation, tease him etc. I then just asked him 'any news', he thought i asked him about the help and he told me he tried to find me info but he couldnt find anything. I told him i understand its not easy. I actually just didnt want to ask him about that again( didnt want him to think i called him because of the info i asked him find for me).later it was better he also was asking me questions and joking. I was charming, teased him laughed at his jokes.. I wanted to encourage him to ask me out but he didn't. Then i just told him it was nice talking to you and let me hear from you and he replied sure. It has been 8 days now and i haven't heard from him. Is he not interested? \what should I do? I don't want to chase him in case he loose interest.
You have nothing to lose by chasing him. Only hurt feelings.
But the good side is that he may respond well if you call him again. Maybe you should ask him to meet for dinner.
Or, you could just give up. It's your call.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com