What Do I Do Now ?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and this girl love each other. But we cant be together because her parents dont want her to have a boyfriend until After high school. if she gets caught she will get sent for sure. and she is such a good and nice girl, i can tell. and she says that she cant keep it a secret because she feels really guilty for lieing to her parents. and that isnt a lie because she seems worried and sad when im with her. So now she said that we have to be friends but i cant do that! she wants me to wait 3 more years since she is a incoming sophomore and im a incoming junior. I know we might to young in age, but i know what it is im feeling. We dont have any other issues, if we could be together we would be the best couple ever. I get so sad that all the things we did all the things we had planned cant happen.. I need to be with this girl because i love her so much, i cant imagine myself with anyone else.
Please...What do I do now ?
Thank you very much.
You are in a really unfortunate situation.
In my opinion, her parents are being unreasonable to ask her to wait until after high school to have a boyfriend. But those are the facts.
She is asking you to be her friend and not a boyfriend. My advice is to do what she wants. Don't come between her and her parents. She will be miserable if that happens.
Realistically, you will probably find another girlfriend before she graduates from high school, but you don't want to hear this now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com