Is it meant to be??
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Well I have this ex and we're like really close, like best friends. I call him my big bro and he calls me his baby sis. Before when we broke up I hated him and he was still in love with me, but then I realized it couldn't be that bad to go back out with him. So we went back out a second time and it didn't work because we had a fight cuz he was the same old him. Now he totally changed and I have a BIG crush on him, he even told me he likes me more then a sister. What should I do??
Tell him that you care for him but you don't want to jump into what happened before when you got together. Suggest that you do things together as friends and let the relationship grow naturally into something stronger.
Go to a movie, or a walk in the park or by a river or beach. Promise each other that there will be no romance until you get to know each other better. This will build up the excitement for both of you and when the time comes, the romance will be very enjoyable.
Take it slow because the last time you ended up fighting. If you can be good friends, then a stronger relationship will be easier.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com