does she like me or the other guy and how can i tell her i love her

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi i have a good friend who i love no doubt about it.

i've had feelings for her for about 2 year but never had the guts to say.

she mainly hangs about with this guy but the feelings are friendly so i mix with their group. she seems to flit with him countineously when he is around and then to get his attention more she may joke that he upset her so she looks away from the group and asks me to do te same.

this is what confuses me when we have done camping as a group if i was like walking slower then everyone else she talk to me about him and say that he want her but she not going to go out with him.

i mean she does somthimes flirt with me, but she has just broken up from a abusive relationship.(this sounds bad however i really don't mean it to) is this the time to make a move or stay well clear as i still want a friendship if she says no! Advice
It's about time you brought up the subject of your feelings for her.

One way to do this without putting her on the spot is to casually say "I really enjoy your friendship and don't want to lose it but I have started to develop feelings for you."

Hopefully she is mature enough to handle this. She might say that she also enjoys being your friend but she wants to keep it that way and see what develops. This is a good answer.

The best answer, of course, is if she says she is developing feelings too.

However she answers, you will be in a better position to know how to act.

I wish the best for you! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Does He-She Like Me?

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.