Should I keep trying?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and My ex were together for almost 3 years and we have been broken up for about a month. We hang out all the time and talk to each other at night and we get along great. She tells me that she wants to get back together but she is scared that i will hurt her again. (making rude comments and ignoring her feelings) I'm going to visit my family and she is coming with me. I miss her so much, being able to hold her, kiss her, etc. She told me that she don't see us together anytime soon. But i want to ask her out again in about a month to go on a date or something. Should i give up, try harder, or just let her ask me back?
It seems that you two are getting along well so that's a very good sign.
Continue seeing her and hanging out. Like you said, give it another month and then ask her out. You don't want to give up because a relationship that lasts three years has some value to it. Trying harder might just turn her off. Waiting for her to ask you back may be a long time.
Meanwhile think really hard about the rude comments and ignoring her feelings. Make very certain that you do not do this while you are on this break. Thinking before you act should help you out now.
Hope things work out! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com