Should I give it some time or just let it go?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend broke up with me Sunday morning via text. I went over to his house Friday night and he told me for the first time that he loved me during sex. A month before however he made it very clear that we no longer have sex but make love and that if he ever found out that I was cheating there would be serious consequences. My daughter had a birthday party Saturday and I needed extra money to make sure that everything came together. When I called him and asked him he said yes he could help and I met him at his house and he gave me money towards her party. After my daughters party my intentions were to go over his house although I never told him this. Instead I was so tired that she and I both we home and fell asleep. Sunday when I woke up I texted him saying good morning baby and he responded that he had been doing some thinking and he thought it was best if we didn't continue on. He explained that he just wanted to be alone and and that if we continued on he would just be forcing himself to do so. He also stated that if we continued on that he would just end up treating me badly and he didn't want to do that. I can also admit that I wasn't the girlfriend I should have been meaning that he would make little comments that he wants somebody to wake up to in the morning. I stopped having sex with him as frequently as I should basically just pushing him away. Yesterday I did a stupid thing by texting him and begging him to come back that he finally said this is my last time responding and that was that. How do I go about getting him back? I feel so stupid in the fact that I kep texting yesterday and begging and asking can he just give me a second chance and telling him over and over that I love him. This is the man that I want as my husband. He is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. What should I do?
Give it some time... it's only been since Sunday. Don't beg him any more... that will just push him away. Let him know you love him and will be waiting if he wants to return.
A little time may be just what he needs to realize what a good thing you are.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com