should i do it?

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Well im really confused right now. I got a girlfriend but she made out with some other guy, and under these circumstances im not able to see or talk to her until she comes back home because she got sent away. im not sure if i want to be with her because i cant trust her anymore. But there is this other girl that i just met and she is pretty cool and easy to hang out with. She has a boyfriend too but its very long distance and im kinda starting to like her. she comes off really flirty with me but i dont know if i should try to become closer with her just because if we do, i dont wanna be the guy that some girl cheats with because i know how it feels for the boyfriend on the other end. im just really confused and im not sure where to go with this one. Should i try to fix things with my girlfriend? Or should i try getting to know the other girl better? help me out please Advice
Why not do both at the same time? As long as you don't go too far with this new girl she is only a friend. When your girlfriend gets back you should have a serious talk with her about her feelings.

You may end up with both or with neither. As long as you are honest with them there should be no problems.

Good luck! George

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