What to do when i see him.
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
There is a guy in my college who has interest on me. He followed me and started talking to me. we talked a bit and he left. when he saw me the next time he also started talking to me and asked my name and i also try to encourage him by being friendly. But he didnt ask for my phone number. I think he wasc nervous. But he is always with his friend si its hard for me to talk to him. I found he will have exams next week and i know where he will take it but the problem is his friend as well will take the same exam. What should i do if i see him coming out of the exam room, i want to keep it interesting and make him ask for my number. How about if his friend come out first and waits for him, should i still approach him.He only smiles to me when his friend is with him without him knowing. should i tease him when i see him again.i want to make the conversation fun without seeming desperate. i think he might know that i was waiting for him outside his exam room to see him and he will loose interest.Is what i think right. I really don't want to mess this. I also get nervous when i see him i would like to make our conversation fun and tease him. i have already asked him questions about his family, when he will graduate, what he plans to do nextetc. I want now to make him feel comfortable and closer to me by like teasing him and show him i am fun but i am not sure what to do abd say. I always make the guy i like just answer my boring questions. Please advice me what to do when i see him coming out of his exam room next week. I am really very interested and dont want to mess with this only chance i have to see him. Please help.
Write your name and phone number of a piece of paper and give it to him. Ask him to write his number on that piece of paper and tear it off and give it to you. Ask him to call you.
At the same time, joke and tease him so that the meeting is light and fun. I can't give you advice on how to do that because it takes practice and you have to feel comfortable in the situation. Ignore the fact that his friend might be there. Just say hi to him and let it go at that.
Don't forget the advice I gave you last time... have some business cards made up so that you can give them to men you meet. It is a good way to introduce yourself. Put your name, address, phone number, email address. On the back of the card you could have a place for them to write the same info so you could give them a card for them to fill out and return to you.
Sometimes the simplest things work the best.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com