i love my friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have this friend that i like a lot ill call her JD i've known jd for a year now, we used to have lunch together we sat in the same table and we looked at each other from across the table. Im confused because she smilles at me everytime she sees me, she also kisses me in the cheek, but lately she has been looking away when i pass close to her. I dont know if she is trying to tell me that she wants nothin with me, or is she just shy with me. Today though she said hi to me and i "accidentally" kissed her lips, she smilled at me and giggled, i think she liked it im not sure. One time i passed close to her and she held my hand she also touches my arms. Like 3 or 4 weeks ago i sent her a message and i told her that i wanted to know her better, the next day she went up to me and started talking to me but im not that good in conversations and i think i got her bored, day after that she talked to me again and after that we didnt talk much just hi, bye, how u been, and stuff like that. Also like 4 months ago a friend told her that i liked her but every thing stayed the same just smilles and kisses we didnt talk about it. She is really social though she also has some other guys after her, not just me. Sometimes i feel like going up 2 her and tellin her how i feel but i never do so. How can i get closer to her so that i can tell her how i feel?? i dont want to freak her out by just saying it, i dont know her that well. Does she seem interested in me? Any advice would be very appriciated. thanks..
Don't worry, she knows you like her.
So if you tell her it won't be a surprise. In fact, she will be very happy to hear you say it. All it takes is courage. Think of it a strengthening your muscles or practicing a sport. Take the chance and build up your guts. She will appreciate that you are doing it.
If for some unexpected reason, she turns you down, then at least you have built up your muscles because there will always be another girl down the line.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com