Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Sometime, I found my self missing my ex. We still talk once awhile but I have this feeling that she is still scare to talk to me. I do ask her out and go eat etc, but she said sometimes or when ever we have time but seem like that been the same phase when ever I asked her to go hang out or sit down somewhere with me. She broke up with me and wanted us to be friend, since I want to be closer to her and build what we had before from the start, its sort of hard for me to do so with her being afraid of me. what can I do with this?
She wants to be a friend and you want to be a lover. She can tell and it scares her.
You have to give up your love for her if you want to be her friend. Then and only then will you have a chance to start from the beginning. It still may never work out, but if you want a shot at it that's the way to go.
What you should really do is find another girl... but you already know that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com