I Kissed another girl and am very tempted to sleep with her.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend have loved eachother and have been together for the past 2 years. We have had our disagreements like any couple but they have been getting worse and worse lately. We are currently on a few day break because of our last argument. When i left her house after our fight i called up one of my closest friends who was down from school. (before i continue i should mention that i get along better with women and my girlfriend gets along better with men and that the friend i called is female) I told her that i needed to vent and i needed someone to confide in. (my girlfriend really does not like this girl because she sent me a text one day saying that she was unable to find her pajamma pants, and therefore dispises the very thought of me talking to her) But we ended up meeting in a coffee shop and she told me she was not doing well with her boyfriend either. We ended up going for a walk and for a moment our eyes locked and we kissed eachother in a passionate embrace. I love my girlfriend very much but i am also falling in love with my friend. She acknoledges me in ways that my gf doesnt. I just need to know if it is the right decision to be with my friend who is ready to leave her deadbeat boyfriend for me or to stay with my current girlfriend who i have loved for years.
Explain to your gf what happened and that you are undecided about what to do. She should have some ideas. Listen to what she says and mix that in with your feelings about this new girl.
This probably won't be pleasant, but that's life.
After two years maybe you need to change scenery. That's ok, but take the classy, gentlemanly way out. You will be glad you did.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com