Why he doesn't follow me when he is with his friends
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I like a guy in uni who approached me and started talking to me.he asked questions like where i am from,what i study, etc.,. We talked a bit and he left.When he saw me the next time he followed me and started talking to me so i kept the conversation going and laughed at his jokes.I had to take a bus so i told him and then he said if you need any help don't hesitate to ask me and he told me hope to see you again,i laughed and said goodbye to him.i don't see him much but whenever i see him he is with his friendsi saw him today with his friends, i knew he will be looking at me if i pass near him, so i looked his way he was looking at me and he smiled and i smiled back .This is the second time that he looked at me and smiled when he is with his friends.he does it in such a way that his friends dont find out that we know each other.I thought he would leave them and follow me but he didnt.later i saw him in canteen with his friends. why when he sees me he cant leave his friends and follow me and use the chance to know each other or ask for my phone number .is he not interested.Why doesnt he use the chance.Please help
You are going to have to make a move. He is tied up with his friends.
Next time you see him, and you are looking at each other, wiggle your finger to invite him to come over to you and talk to you. He will eagerly respond to you and then you two can become closer to each other.
Nothing will happen unless you take the lead. I know that girls don't like to make the first move, but you must do it or you may lose him. Guys are shy too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com