Does she like me as more than a friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My best friend and I have a great friendship and really love being around each other. when we are together i feel like nothing else matters as long as I can make her smile, but the question remains does she feel the same way i do. i really love her and would never want anything other than a life of happiness for her even if I,m not the one she is with. Whenever i call her she usually greets me with a very enthusiastic hey or hi. She says that i am a blessing from God for our friendship. I am always there for her and she knows full well that I will always be there for her no matter what. Is she getting comfortable with having me as a friend to the point of not considering me as more? To be honest not alot would change between us if we were together, i would still be her biggest fan regardless. What should I do, what signs should i look for?
A good way to deal with this situation is to carefully let her know your feelings.
One way to do this is to say to her "I am starting to develop feelings for you." She should understand what you mean but if she asks say "feelings stronger than friendship." Then it will be up to her to give your her reply.
Be sure to let her know that you want to continue being her friend even if she doesn't want more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com