Arguments for no reason
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 years now .Well everytime I ask him a question he gets annoyed or if I tell him he didn't do a chore is becomes a problem .I've tryed to talk to him several times and we agree on making things better but 1 week later is the same situtation and arugements.I love him and I know he loves me too we are also planning on getting married in the future but why can't he not understand me .I'm responsible,pretty,good mother, good wife material (cook,clean,work).I'm always willing to talk things over but he says he doesn't want to talk about it .What should I do should we call it a end on our relationship?
In a good relationship both parties have to communicate openly and respectfully.
He is not fulfilling his half of the commitment. You are taking on most of the burden. If you are willing to live this way for the rest of your life then let him get away with it. Otherwise, go to a professional counselor (with him or without him) and talk it out.
You will feel a lot happier if you can figure this out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com