Missing Piece of me...(again 2)
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So I confronted him about whether he had blown me off or not, he said that he thought he had responded and didn't think he had blown me off. So I guess that's a good thing....right?
I also talked to him about a week or so later (probably about a week ago), I said that "i didnt want to lose him as a friend and that seems to be what is happening." and then asked "if there was anything I could do to fix that from happening?"
he said "i dont know..i mean, im not being rude or distant on purpose....what did you expect i guess"
i told him that i guess i expected what happened.
So, from that does (or could) that mean that there is no way to fix our friendship?
So those are my 2 questions...thank you very much
The answer to your first question is "yes" that is a good thing that he didn't blow you off.
The second question is more complex. You seem to be expecting trouble being friends. I recommend that you start being his friend again. He will think it is perfectly natural. Just don't appear to be too needy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com