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Uncertainty feeling

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Thank you for reading this.

I met this guy "D" 2+ years ago, we hang outs and dated each other. But he suddenly left me without a hint, so I move on my life.

I found a new bf, and in between he came back to me, but I told him I have a bf, and I will stay faitfull. Eventually, I broke up with my bf, and he came bk to me right after that.

So he told me he will be with me, and he miss me always, but at that time I can't decide (due to just broke up), so we just be friend again.

And time passed, for some reason we start seeing each other again, we date once a week and slowly things just going fine.

After few months, and I asked him are we going any further, because I still can feel the uncertainty from him. He told me maybe he is not ready to commit, but he found peace but not worried or sad (last time does) after meeting me (last night).

A few days later, we went for a date again. This date was the most perfect date ever happen to us. We had fun and enjoyed. When he sent me home, we talked.

A long talked we have, he explained he has been alone for so long, and so use to it. He tried dating other girls, but all not lasted for 1 date, except for me which he wanted to see me again and again, cause I gave him peace feeling. He said he tried to leave me last time because there's nothing wrong about me, and he was happy when I found a bf, when I found my happiness. At 1st he wanted to leave after the talk, but we ended still wanted to seeing each other again.

After 2 days of silent, finally he sent me an email saying he always treated me as a friend and not in love with me. and says that a man should never be hesistant, should not always be so unsure, if he is, then it is being dishonest to oneself.

And this is his final decision, and hoping me to find my happiness.

This is the end of the story, I don't know whether I'm being stupid or not, because I believe that he loves me, and I just don't understand.

Appreciate a lot for your patience reading.

RomanceClass.com Advice
He is unsure of himself too. That is why it took him so long to give you a reply.

My suggestion is to continue to be friends with him and see what develops.

Good luck! George

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