I gave another chance is/will he do it again?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I fell pregnate to him after four months of dating. I didnt think I could ever fall pregnate so it was a miricle.My baby died at 11 weeks. 2 weeks later i found out my man had been cheating the whole time. Infact he was cheating on her with me. But not just me, about 3 other girls as well. He had to leave the country for visa reasons a week later. He begged me to forgive him, and i couldnt let go. For 5 months we spoke online for 2 hours everynight sorting out the reasons and hurt. He came back and we now live and work together. He never spends a night away from me and shows he is sorry and trying. But tonight I saw he was flirting with another women online. She lives in another country, he said sorry, and said it was just an old habbit and it wont happen again. I dont know what to do. I love him, but how much can i take. I dont want to leave him, but I will have to if there is no chance he has really fixed his old ways. Other then the flirting on skype, he has definatly been good. Do you think someone can change? Can love concer all? Should I stay to find out and risk the pain again?
There is no way of predicting what another person will do. On the face of it, he doesn't sound like a trustworthy person. But on the other hand, he seems to be trying to turn himself around.
You should trust but keep your eyes open.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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