This is so wrong, but it feels so right

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Dear "George"

I've recently broken up with my boyfriend and am quite happy to be out of the relationship.

So, I've known this other guy for about 4yrs now. Let's say his name is Ryan and he'll be 18 this year (by the way, I'm 16). I talked to him a lot when I was with my ex and he comforted me all the time.

But now when we talk, we often flirt with each other and 'talk dirty' as well. We spoke about getting together to just have a bit of 'innocent fun' with each other. He said it would be like a 'passion thing' and not a 'love thing' with no attachments.

I crave being kissed, touched and getting intimate to the point of me seeking it out from my guy friends that I know will give it to me, but it feels so right to do something this wrong.

Should I go ahead with it? Advice
You will have to answer that for yourself. It is the way *you* feel about the subject that is important. I suppose you could try it a little and quit if it wasn't right for you.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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