what should i do???
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i still want and love my ex... we've broke up 3 to 4 months ago and we've been together just for 4 months... she broke up with me and her reason is to focus on her studies... i dont believe in that coz after a month i heard that she likes her 1st yr classmate... after she broke up with me, she avoided me... she changed her no., she deleted me in her friendster and youtube account. she doesnt want to talk to me. she's always mad at me then i start chasing her but she get really mad at me because of that..after a month, i stopped chasing her...im not texting her, sending her a msg or what... i reversed the situation, i became the snobbish... even i want to talk to her i just snobbed her...then i tried to make her jealous...the girl(our friend) she was really jealous when we're still together, she offered me to make my ex jealous.... i always talk to her, put her(our friend) on my feautured friends on friendster, my status on my ym was always about her(our friend)... that time i think i made her(my ex) jealous but now i dont know what happen... its like she doesnt care if i found someone new... and now, i think she found someone new... and it hurts for me a lot... i know she still cares for me... last month she surprised me, me and our friends has a reunion, i thought she'll not come, but on that day she txted me and said she'll just go to our house... and she'll join us in our reunion.. she surprised me - she texted me that she's near. Just one ride and then she'll be in our house but after a minute i was really surprised that when i looked in our gate, my god she's already there...i dnt know what to do, what to say...she just said to me when we were chatting, expect the unexpected...that day was the first time we're gonna see each other after we broke up...now, im still thinking if i can get her back... im trying to be nice to her, pretend that i dont care anymore, that i already moved on... we're starting to be friends again...can i make her fall in love with me again just like before??? what else should i do????
There is no magic answer on how to make someone else fall in love with you... I am sure you know that. Continue being her friend and give her flowers and chocolate to make her feel good about you.
Tell her they are presents of friendship so she won't become upset. Be open and honest with her and don't pretend to be something you are not. Do not try to trick her unless you think she is stupid... which she is not.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com