Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
help me pls, me and my GF have been cool off. since last week, it's almost 5days. actually, we are always arguing, and, we end up in breaking up, many times before, bec. not understanding each other, and this time, its bec. i really miss her, i mean, we didn't see always, and, i really miss her, so, i want to hug her, in many people, but, she dont want that way, do you think it's bad, to hug her, even to be sweet to her in a bar. me and my gf is almost 1yr nd 4 months... i am 23 yrs old, nd she's 22. and back to the topic, so, i feel so loveless or she dont like me much, so i got my emotion control me... and we end up arguing. i want to be with her, i really love her so much, i dont know what to do. i jst want to be sweet to her. but, i dont know, how... do I am really selfish? pls help me... thank you for your concern...
You say you love her so much but you are arguing with her. In order to make her feel good about you, you will have to be sweet to her even if she is not sweet to you. Give her some presents like flowers or chocolate, it should make her feel better about you.
It has only been five days. Don't worry too much because these things usually work out ok.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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