boys are cruel

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am obsessed with this wonderful, amazing guy. I know he likes me too but the problem is that he talks to other girls too. hes one of those guys that EVERY girl wishes for and would kill to be his girlfriend. i feel really luckey for him to tell me that he does like me and that im an "amazing person". i feel like im at the top of the world at those moments.. its like santa bringing ONLY you a present on christmas, you feel like the most special person in the world. i know for a fact that with looks i can get any guy i would want, but the one guy that i want more then anything in the world wont ask me to be his girlfriend. i feel like i make it to easy for him sometimes.. or sometimes i act as if i am his girlfriend and i feel like he wont ask me cuz he may think i already was his and he might tire of me. how should i act around him? how can i do it so he'll be like "wow, this girl is sooo different then any girl i know, i want her to be my girlfriend"... how should i act, should i play hard to get, and if i do then how hard should i play? should i ever let him know how i feel about him, or should i ever let him know that when other guys would chase me i wouldnt care, but with him its really different? what should i let him know and what shouldnt i? Advice
Instead of playing hard to get, try being honest with him.

Tell him you like him and would like to hang out, go out, or go to the movies.
Do this soon or else some other girl will get him.

And, where is this "cruel" comment coming from?

Good luck! George

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