Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well i've asked a question before so heres a follow up question and some background info from before. me and this girl were absolutely close as possible but not dating. but if you saw it you would think we were dating. for example we made out a few times and we kiss hello and goodbye during school as well. but after a few weeks of that i got 2 phone calls and texts stating that she had a boyfriend in another state. and after that i asked what should i do and you told me to just ask her out and i did. well it turned out that they were just "talking" and so i did ask her out and she told me i dont know, because she does like me as much as i like her but she doesnt want to ruin the friendship we have and she said she has messed up in the past with her ex boyfriends and doesnt want me to end up like that because shes says im one of those people that she doesnt want feelings to get hurt. and now im lost because we still like eachother and i still would like to date her cause it seems like a perfect fit and everything is just right and shes the one that makes me happiest when im with her. so george im really lost and i need your help. thanks in advance and sorry its kinda long
She sounds willing but is afraid of hurting you. Ask her again and if she says she's afraid she will hurt you tell her that if she doesn't say yes then there is a good chance that will hurt you. Tell her you are willing to take the risk of love to be with her.
This might not convince her, but it's worth a try.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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