I want her back, but how?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and her have been going out since last summer, we broke up for about a month and i thought that'd be it but somehow we managed to recover and we've been going out for around two months since...
Even though we've shared many great times, we have fallen out numerous times and two days ago we broke up. This was mostly my fault, I didnt approach her at school as much as I should have, this was partly because i didnt see her too often, but she said to me numerous times "Why havnt you been speaking to me?".. I guess this just made me think she'd be in a mood with me if i did try to talk to her afterwards. I dont know im just not a confident person, I love talking to her but i could just sense when she was in a mood with me from when I hadnt seen her recently, this made me avoid talking to her, expecting her to approach me, which i realise was wrong now.
The day after she broke up with me, i talked to her over the phone, not to argue, but to say im sorry for the way I'd been acting, she didnt say much but seemed to acknowlage what id said and was greatful..
I've been told the best way to handle breakups is to let them cool and just stay away from each other, but the main cause of our breakup was me ignoring her...I know where I've gone wrong but i dont know how to show her i really am sorry and i want her back??
I love her soo much and I'll do whatever it takes, please help me?!
You should talk to her all the time so she knows you care about her. Don't go around imagining that she is in a mood. Instead be positive and talk nicely with her. Communication is one of the important things about a good relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com