I need help.....
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay, this is the deal, I have been going with this sweet girl since Jan. 1 and I really like her but my suspision has been really getting to me and I want to know if any of it's true because, see, she went to a skating rink a couple weeks after we starting going out and she told me that she had a hicky on her neck and we hadn't seen each other for four weeks at that time and she told me that she missed me so much that she wanted me and attention, apparently, and that guy was just there and that just what happened. Know I have fogiven her for that but something is telling me in my mind that something is going on that I don't know about and that she isn't telling me everything that is happening with her and I'm mostly accusing her of being with someone else, whether I'm talking to her or not. I just really would appreciate if you have any good tips on what to look for to know if my girlfriend is stepping out on me. I love her and I know its too early to fall in love with her this early into the relationship but I don't care. These are my real feeling and I don't want to make it seem like I don't trust her, I just want to get my facts right before I do something I will probably end up regreting in the future. Thanks and sorry its soo long.
Face facts, you don't trust her-- and nobody could blame you after what she did.
The way to deal with this problem is to build a deep, communicative, loving relationship with her. This will take a while to do. If you really care about her, you will build up your relationship.
Find out what she really feels and go from there.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com