Friendship or flirting

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I'm a 30 y old man
I work for six months now with a woman and we r closed friends but im starting to have feelings towards her but seems im not the only one
As she tells me everything ive been told that she and our boss(married with kids) are flirting since two weeks now and that they slept with each other several times
The problem is that now even if i still see her as a friend , i have also a kind of refusal of what she s doing but can t tell her anything since she doesnt know my feelings towards her
another problem is that i see both of them daily and since she told me the truth when i look at them i imagine them making love to each other
how can i deal with that situation ? shall i stay close to her knowing that i still love her despite all what she did?
shall i tell her to stop telling me the details of her relation with the boss or should i act as nothing happened knowing that since i learned about that story i m not eating nor sleeping or focusing in the office
thx u for ur help Advice
Ask her to stop telling you details about her and her boss. If she wants to know why say that it makes you jealous.

Then continue to be her friend and hope for the best. The thing between her and her boss will probably end in a while.

This won't be easy, but give it a try.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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