should I continue or stop ?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
C doesnt have any other relationship with anyone yet. C told me C give me 3 more years until I can stop loving her than C will find a husband for her. should i call her everyday? is it good idea? coz we live so far away from each other. but i can understand that she bored with talking with me sometime coz I dont have something much to say and always asking same questions that is so bored but if i dont call her i worry she will forget me. so what should i do??? how can i know if C still loving me?? but C sure that C will marry to a guy for her funture coz of her family. but she will give my wish that she will live with me a month. everytime i call her i can understand C worry about me coz when im sad, C always get mad with herself and sometime she get mad with herself coz C dont have much time for me, when C know im sick , she blame me alot that i dont take care of myself. I really dont understand her. I really want to know she still love me or not??? how can i know that? but C always told me even C still love me but she can't choose me, C has to marry with a guy that her family want. So what do u think? i should spend a month with her or should stop now? coz i know in the future she still can not choose me but i think a month living with her if i make her happy maybe i can change her mind to come back to me. but what happen if she still can not change her mind so i will get more hurt coz build more memories and still can not get her??? but i can not stop loving her at all what can i do???? pls tell me how can i get her love back? how can i make her in love with me back??? pls help meeeeeeeee
Continue your plan to live with her for a month. Maybe she will fall back in love with you and you can continue to live together.
This sounds good, but instead she may go ahead with her plan to marry a guy so that her family is happy. This is probably what will happen, as you know.
If you live with her for a month you will have the pleasure of that month and also the pleasure of thinking about it in the future. Just accept it as what was meant to be.
Do what you can to keep yourself happy. That is very important. Sometimes you have to put your desires to one side and go ahead with life.
Good luck! George
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